Marriage has always been a grey area for me. Simple because I grew up dreaming of that perfect white wedding in church, in the sight of God and family, living happily ever after. When my brain clicked on to the fact that I was gay, I still kept thinking about that beautiful white wedding, but this time it would be to the man I loved. Sadly, I think it will be a cold day in hell before I'm allowed to marry a man in the Catholic church.

But staying with marriage, how many of us have blown it out of proportion? I know so many of my single girls who tell me they've picked out the right kind of dress, the perfect song, where they want to have the reception - even what flowers are going to be strewn across the aisle. In my opinion, marriage can be a big let down in so many ways. Marriage changes the dimensions of a relationship - it basically means that you're finally happy with this one person, and you choose him or her above everyone else. For me, weddings are always a depressing place - I belong to the elite group of people that you find at every wedding - the single guy or girl who's sitting in the corner minding their own business, when someone or the other has to come up and ask 'So when are YOU getting hitched?' To which I normally reply 'Well, as soon as you dislodge this fork from your ear, I'll tell you'.

I came across this video yesterday and it made me think - what if after chasing a woman all over the place to win her heart, she just wasn't that into you? ;)



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