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Saturday, September 16, 2006
Tell Me A Story
Many of you who read my blog have emailed me various questions, most of them just simple questions like where I live, what I'm like in person, and what brand of shampoo I like. So, to veer off the path slightly, this post is an almost-complete picture of me.

The Basics
I'm a 24 year old single queer Indian guy. Though I savor food like the French and have sex like the Italians, I am an extremely social person. I am a towering 6' 2" in height, so I'm really easy to spot out in a crowd. I've apparently been blessed with a fast metabolism so that I always stay in the 59-63kg weight range, so yes I have a slim figure with no ass. Not a fair trade if you ask me. Black hair with brown eyes and rimless glasses. Love to smile and laugh as well. I am the youngest of 4 kids - 2 are married, 1 is too picky, and I've got relationship issues.

The Person
I would definitely describe myself as loud. I get my booming voice from my mum's genetics, as well as her cooking skills. Food is very important to me, and I think any solution can be solved by talking it over a nice meal. I really like Italian and Chinese food, though I'm open to trying anything at least once. I love meeting new people, and once I get to know you well enough, I can't stop talking. I love computers and tech gadgets, as well as going on trips to the malls and unwinding with coffee and chocolate chip cookies.

The Life
I work, party, play, and shop in Dubai. Yet I live in Sharjah, which is about a 20 minute drive away. Why? Well, the rents are cheaper and my folks are there, so someone has to keep them out of trouble. I'm currently working in an HR company, which keeps me on my toes but gives me shopping money. My weekends usually involve me meeting up with my best friends, or if they are busy, some random chap off shagdar. Mind you, I'm not a slut - I do not sleep with anyone until at least I've had dinner.

The People
I have very few close friends in my life. Which is great, because in school and college I was often surrounded by people, and very few actual friends. My friends are my lifeline - they are the reason I am happy to wake up in the morning, and the reason I look forward to weekends. I am not ashamed at being gay at all, and almost everyone I am acquainted with knows that I'm gay. However, due to my parent's past cultural upbringing, I've found it best to keep this info from them until the right moment. Like a funeral perhaps. Hopefully mine.

The Man
As mentioned before, I'm single. I've only had 2 really serious relationships, but they were complicated. My ideal man would probably come out of a test tube, but until then I'm accepting applications. Over the years I've kept 'adjusting' the list of qualities I want in my man, but at the end of the day if I meet the right guy I'll probably burn that list anyway.

Not enough info for you? Drop me an email and I'll answer your questions!

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Blogger The Lady said...
And that is The Nick as we now know him. Pleasure getting to know you, my boi!

Now, where's that bloody drink you owe me?!

Anonymous Anonymous said...
the lady A drink!! didnt u read that "I'm a 24 year old single gay"
so leave the drinks for me

Blogger nick said...
Dahlink, Shirley Temples all around!

Anonymous Anonymous said...
Some random chap off gaydar? Wish I could be a random chap but I can't access gaydar here.

Blogger nick said...
@anon - you should have left me your phone number luv!

Blogger Kiwi Boy said...
Oh good! Another gay Indian! Hello there.. a fellow Indian, proud gay boy, Dubaian and blogger here.
I'm 18 years old [well, almost] and hats [or topis] off to you, my friend, for being open. I found you off the UAE Community blog.

It's good to meet other gay Indian men who have come out, at least online. The GLBT community back in good ol' Bhaarat is stupidly suppressed, isn't it? No wonder we have so many closet cases.

Anonymous Anonymous said...
All we need to turn you straight .. is a Porsche.. I've seen you drive !!

Ta-da-da-daaa ... da da da-daaaa .. oh helloooowww .. a shirtless cute guy on the sidewalk ..

Screech .. Bump ..

lol .. ur da best.

hahaha...one of the best 'about me's i have ever read...:)

Blogger Mars said...
wow...one of the best about me's i've read :)
and thanks for the blogroll add...i was wondering why there was a sudden surge of traffic to my blog..but blog traffic is cool..so i'm cool.
(yes, i've just reached home and my brain's gone inal-hatif almtuharik so excuse moi)

Blogger sugarpeaches said...
Question Nick can I be your gf when you come to the states :) lol..and its good getting to know you too.. keep it real :) -peaches

Anonymous Anonymous said...
Your blog is really a fun read, I enjoyed reading it, especially this 'about me' page.

Blogger hazel said...
hmmmmm we can hang out

Anonymous Anonymous said...
Fascinating stuff :)
Am linking you.

Anonymous Roger said...

Blogger Brain Mechanic said...
nice. super profile. cool blog. thank you!