So after much thinking, talks with friends, and general musings (and nagging), I have decided to try and pursue a relationship. The other day I was speaking with a friend about how I'm still young and I should enjoy myself and the "dating" scene, but in all honesty, I'm pretty much worn out with it. Sure I get plenty of 'hibbidy-jibbidy' (*cringe*) but I remember a time when I was in a real relationship and how happy I was.

So my first step on the 'road to relationships' was to delete my gaydar profile. I've had that thing for about 9 years, and have met plenty of men, but the time has come to take things a little bit slower. So bye bye gaydar (or shagdar as I called it) - you will be missed for a while, but nothing that a little therapeutic shopping can't fix.

Ladies and gentlemen (and those who have yet to make up their minds) - I am now officially single. And Looking.

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